Four years ago,
I wrote a composition
About a girl who had, for a year,
been my best friend
And who had taken only a day to stray.
I gave it to my English teacher
and she gave me 85%.
Today,
I saw her again
In the same neighbourhood we grew up in
Through the same glasses I cried in
With the same girl she’d replaced me with.
She herself was different;
Fresh home from America, where she’d spent the last four years
Her face was caked white
And her eyes puffy from an overdose of contact lenses
I did not recognise her at first.
Suddenly it became an unlikely triangle
Of people who had not seen each other for years
And who learned to get used to it
An awkward triangle with vertices that did not quite fit;
Friendly banter was thrust upon me
With the force of a thousand horses marching into war
With the grace of an Asian girl turned white
To their credit, they all joined in
Like artisans at a playing table, throwing out a line
To keep the game moving.
Experts they were, at the game they did not even realise
Was happening
Because they had come to define it as “friendliness”.
When the turn landed on me,
my hand was dreadful; I, a mere beginner.
The friend said “I have a card for you before you leave” and
I watched from a million miles away
As the conversation went out without me
As if it were the most natural thing in the world
I stood there, eyes drifting, silenced, waiting
And I think of possibilities now,
Cards I should have played,
Points I should’ve earned.
“When did you get back? How’s America?
How long are you staying for?”
But feigned interest is something in witchcraft
That I have not mastered.
I look at her and all I can think of
Are the Neoprints she still owes me from 3 years ago,
Back from her first trip home.
The Neoprints that were probably thrown out
years ago.
“The last time you saw her was…four years ago?”
And I could tell the truth but I hold my tongue;
The dying remnants of our acknowledgement
of each other’s existence
Cannot be salvaged by forced, one-way friendship
on my part
And I watch it fade.
Four years ago,
I wrote a composition
About a girl who had, for a year,
been my best friend
And who had taken only a day to stray.
I gave it to my English teacher
and she gave me 85%.
Tonight,
I will go to sleep
And when I wake up,
I won’t even remember seeing her.
And maybe I’ll finally let myself know
We weren’t peas of the same pod
That I was only a make-do choice,
And that she was waiting on someone better.
And I’ll let myself do the same.
{written on 1 August ’14}